Mmmkay.

Obviously there are certain posts directed at people [well, not neccessarily directed AT anyone, there are certain situations that spark my anger that deal with certain people but are everyday issues for many I suppose] that will never contain names...just yours truly venting that is all. Anyway, what is up with these women who try and trap men with pregnancies? I feel so sorry for these men that get in these situations, and I am not saying that the men are entirely innocent in the entire ordeal, however, if a man chooses to leave a woman that he has a child with, is he really a criminal? And what if a man gets a woman pregnant that tried the "Trap em' hook em' card before" on someone else? Poor guy, seriously. But women, face it, this isn't the 50's, men are not obligated to marry you if you get pregnant and that is something that women just have to realize. Now if a man marries you and it works and you guys love each other, seriously that is awesome in my opinion. It saves the child from a world of hurt.

This brings me to my next topic...women who pawn other men off as the "father" of their child when he is not really the father. Do y'all NOT watch Lifetime? No I am kidding about the Lifetime thing, but seriously, eventually the truth comes out. Either the real father finally takes the mother to court, or the child figures out on their own, or the mother is finally consumed by guilt for doing something wrong, or the truth comes out on its own. Maybe the man being pawned off as "daddy" finally realizes that the situation is wrong and gets the balls to say something, or maybe someone involved actually has a heart. Seriously though, children need a stable mother and father in their lives, regardless of how pissed off the mother is at the real father. There is nothing garunteeing that the relationship between the mother and the man being passed off as their father will work, and then when the mother moves on to her next relationship and introduces this new man as "daddy" who suffers here? Is it really worth it to "get back" at someone and hurt your alls child at the same time? Lets face it, the issue is not about you and the father any longer, it is about the beautiful child that you and that child's father created. Why do so many women do this to their children? I know many many people that have grown up thinking someone else was their father, and then find out the truth and it kills them. And the person blamed is usually the mother, because honestly, it is usually her fault, at least from what I have witnessed. And some situations are that the father ran off, but even if that is the case, mothers should just tell their children the truth. And if you are embarrassed of the real truth, such as, "Well your real father broke my heart so I decided to not let him see you," then chances are...you shouldn't be doing it.

Hey, just my opinion. :\ Anyway, I feel like a blimp...so I really need to get off this thing and go exercise. Actually, I may just take the babies for a walk around the three mile track, they love the outdoors. :]

xo
Meagan